tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678643247610271411.post8692340209513735130..comments2023-09-22T03:55:07.341-07:00Comments on Single Canadian Mom By Choice: In which I have an emotional breakdownAndreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17093204761214089741noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678643247610271411.post-64595847813266521002011-09-11T21:55:51.804-07:002011-09-11T21:55:51.804-07:00Hang in there... I lost a cat a few years ago due ...Hang in there... I lost a cat a few years ago due to cancer. I couldn't afford treatment, and she was on the older side (12? 13?) so I had to have her put down. It was hard, and even my dog grieved for a while, but it does get better with time. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with it, though. :(<br /><br />The baby stuff will come together. I know I'm not the right person to talk... seeing as I haven't even started TTC yet, but I just KNOW it will all work out. You'll find out what you need, even if you figure it out as you go. <br /><br />Take it one day at a time, hang in there, and things WILL get better!Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12437548841903850607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678643247610271411.post-42502459605251942882011-09-10T08:41:12.902-07:002011-09-10T08:41:12.902-07:00I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed. D...I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed. Doing it all on your own can be very isolating then to have to add the heartbreaking news about your cat. I hope things turn around soon.Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678643247610271411.post-47429693361910697882011-09-10T04:57:27.036-07:002011-09-10T04:57:27.036-07:00I'm sorry about your cat, that is so hard! I ...I'm sorry about your cat, that is so hard! I lost a cat years ago to urinary tract problems and I still feel bad about it all :(<br />Don't worry about your yard, you should see mine ;) <br />Make sure you go to the baby boom show this weekend at NSP, it's free and lots of neat stuff, might take your mind off the bad stuff? And they have lots of free stuff and contests and things :) And next weekend the SMC Ottawa group is having a get together, you should come and check it out, there will be sympathetic shoulders and others who know what you are going through.<br />You have already done more money wise than I had when I had my son, and in fact this past week I've had to borrow money from my parents, and then my car died... so I get the worry, not much help :) but it does work out.<br />I loved my registry, but I did it all online, and then would check and it would change things to pink! not sure why but it really was annoying. I just made a point of telling people I want the BLUE one even if it says pink. Worked out ok in the end! And I know you don't actually know me lol, but if you want help with that, I'd be happy to :) Hope I don't sound like a weirdo lol, just been there and really do get it!Heather Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05507663188778402321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678643247610271411.post-15365253293970465882011-09-09T20:09:51.988-07:002011-09-09T20:09:51.988-07:00I'm sorry you are having to make hard decision...I'm sorry you are having to make hard decisions about your cat. Those are stressful even in the calmest of circumstances. As to the worries about not having enough money, I am SO completely there with you. It is a part of me, but then I go and do goofy things like loan lots of money to people. If your mom and sister aren't being very helpful with the gift registry, maybe you could post questions on one of the discussion boards (if you're brave enough for all of the opinions). Either way, good luck. I hope you have a wonderful, healthy, completely boring rest of your pregnancy.Nellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03273965620333616949noreply@blogger.com